The most offensive song of the year will continue to play on our airwaves, unless you help to drown it out.
Last night I couldn’t sleep, and it had nothing to do with the three extra coffees I snuck in before bedtime.
It was because once again rape culture and misogyny were being celebrated in the music industry, because once again social media was seething with song lyrics promoting violence against women and once again I was hit with the harsh reminder that gender equality is not something I’ll get to see in my lifetime.
This is where it started.
Musician Redfoo, well known to the Australian public through his role as a judge and mentor on the reality show X Factor, has just released a new collaboration with Lil Jon, Play-N-Skillz and Enertia McFly, the song Literally, I Can’t. It’s already been labelled the worst song of the year, but this unwanted accolade has nothing to do with how uncatchy the tune is and everything to do with how offensive the lyrics and video clip are.
Haven’t heard or seen it yet? Lucky you. Allow me to break it down for you.
In the video a group of young women are harassed and verbally assaulted, simply because they don’t want to drink or engage in certain activities. These women are depicted as killjoys and labelled ”bitches” and ”sluts” for refusing to conform to the wishes of the male party goers. When the women repeatedly make it clear that they are not interested, they are then surrounded by a group of rowdy men who shout in their faces to ‘shut the f*** up”.
One woman is pushed unwillingly to the ground while Redfoo films for the porn site ”Redtube”. Offensive lyrics in the song include:
“You’re annoying b**** because you’re talking”
“Shhh, don’t talk about it be about it. Work it, twerk it and maybe I’ll tweet about it”
“Girl I’m sipping on this drink, trying to see what you got, not hear what you think.”
Thankfully, the push-back against this abhorrent song has been just as loud as the offensive tune itself. Entertainment website The Fix have issued a blanket ban against Redfoo, vowing to never write about or promote him again. Collective Shout, a grassroots campaigning movement against the objectification of women and sexualisation of girls in media, advertising and popular culture, have started a petition on Change.org against Redfoo requesting that Channel 7 part ways with him. The petition has already received 9,774 signatures since it was started yesterday, with more continuing to roll in as momentum grows.
Their voices were joined by thousands of others across multiple social media platforms and while this was heartwarming to see, the din of those supporting the song and its artists threatened to drown them out.
Redfoo claimed he was being ‘victimised’ and made excuses for the song by tweeting that he really ‘loves and respects women’ and sees them as ‘powerful’. Well, that’s nice of you to say, ‘foo, I’ll remember that next time a group of men are telling me to ‘shut the f*** up’ and I’m sure it will fill my heart with joy.
While it’s not surprising to see an artist trying to disentangle themselves from a public mess via a few offhand tweets, what was surprising were the number of people in my own social media feeds who couldn’t see the need for such drastic action. Comments such as ‘it’s just a joke, lighten up’, ‘this is just the music industry, if you don’t like it just don’t listen’ and ‘I’m so sick of women complaining about misogyny, there’s nothing more to be done with women’s rights. Men have problems too’ swarmed across my screen like little misogynistic blowflies.
It’s statements like these, rolling off the tongues of young men and women alike, that remind me equality between the sexes is not something my generation will see.
Here’s the thing, guys: it’s not manly or funny or harmless to shrug off misogyny, sexism or the promotion of rape culture simply because you’re sick of hearing about feminism or believe that a pop song doesn’t have the power to do serious damage. And ladies, it is OK to speak out. There’s no need to try and be ‘the cool girl’, the girl who can ‘take a joke’, or the girl who doesn’t need to care about sexism because it’s never affected her. Because let me tell you this; you’re affected every time somebody laughs or sings along to this song and songs just like it.
This isn’t an Us vs Them debate, because the only way we’re going to make a difference is to speak out together and make a change. By bringing down one hateful song at a time.
What do you think of Literally, I Can’t? Do you think it is offensive? Let us know in the comments.
Thank you for a refreshing article – I completely agree. Silence is just as bad in this instance because unfortunately it sends the message that we are ok with this sort of statement. Men (and women) please don’t discredit our opinions by telling us to calm down. We are offended by the objectification of our bodies and the stereotyping of our attitudes. Redfoo et al this is not ok.
Thank you Laura for bringing this to light and for a really well written piece. I agree with everything you said and I am appalled that this is considered acceptable. My like-affair with Redfoo is over.
Im sorry but this is exactly what is wrong with the media. For starters Redfoo is Featured in this song it is not “his song” So why is it that he is the one copping all the blame and I’m sorry but one tiny mention of the other collaborators isn’t enough to save your own ass for that one. Second Redfoo is not filing for redtube it wasn’t even him that was holding the phone and it wasn’t being recorded the guy only opened the page BIG BIG difference. Singling out one artist because of their standing in the spotlight and trying to make an example out of them is just plain dirty especially when you have gotten most of your fact wrong. I suggest that you rethink your articles and research a bit more than grabbing a few quotes and spinning them to go with your own personal crusade without knowing what you are actually talking about and to be truthfully honest I hope Redfoo takes this matter further because with this article he could have a major case against YOU.
I think if you looked further into most lyrics and musical themes you could find something offensive if you wanted to. I don’t particularly enjoy Redfoo’s music but I am not particularly worried about the impact of this song either. Its getting more attention than it needs ….it would probably only have been popular for a week, storm in a teacup. Just my opinion. Not an attack.
“The standard you walk past, is the standard you accept”. I would not accept a group of men yelling and pushing women in the club. And I won’t be walking past this petition. Signed.